If you have ever asked yourself, why do they do that–this is for you. By now you realize they are different because of your experience in your life. Understanding small differences can bring long overdue social change when we use the findings. Both males and females can benefit and the result is increased innovation, interpersonal skills, engages and prevents misunderstandings. The 3 things inspire and motivate males and females but without them we have divorces, higher depression rates, substance use and more. They are engaging, fun, easy and they are not the same!